My boyfriend is a virgin and has been masturbating for months. My mom has told me to ask him to stop, as it's unhealthy for me. My mom is a good friend of mine, she even bought him a hoodie. He even gave me a lot of money. But he also has told me that he doesn't like it, so I'm worried if it's possible for us to break up.

Why is it safe to ask my boyfriend to stop masturbating to my mom